I broke down Sunday night. I look back on it now and it feels so dumb, but I had reached my breaking point.
For the last…I don’t know how long…anyway, I feel like I’ve been so fake. I don’t like fake people. I like real people who don’t hide how they really are, but I’ve been such a hypocrite. I feel so disconnected from my faith. Most of the time I feel like I’m just going through the motions, doing what I’m supposed to do. I go to church because I’m supposed to. I read my Bible because I’m supposed to. I pray because I’m supposed to. The fire isn’t there. My passion isn’t there. I’m frustrated and I just feel alone.
Sunday night I walked into church. I stood at the back of the church for the first 10 minutes alone. I didn’t have anywhere to sit. Dumb right? So I left. I left, got in my car, and cried. I had the first real conversation with God that I’ve had in weeks, maybe months. I told Him that I felt like He had abandoned me. I felt like the mistakes I made in the past are still beating me up years later. I felt like this God of forgiveness was really just a God of punishment. I felt like I was completely alone without any one to turn to or confide in.
Three days later I still don’t have the answers. I feel better, like I got some things off of my heart that had been building. I know that God hasn’t left me. I know I’ve messed up a lot, but I also know that God has forgiven me and given me multiple clean slates.
This whole post is one big gripe fest. I don’t let myself dwell on being “alone” too much because most of the time I don’t consider myself alone. But the past few weeks have been really hard. Everyone else has moved on with their life and I feel stuck in my teen years. Anyway, sorry to anyone who reads this. Just needed to get a few things off of my chest.



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June 10, 2009 at 5:57 pm
Rachel
Ter! I love you. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. I haven’t been there to relate on the literal aloneness, but I can tell you that everyone no matter how fulfilled they are can feel truly lonely at times. This faith we have can be HARD! I often feel like my purpose has yet to be revealed to me. What am I doing to further the kingdom by sitting at home day to day? What talents do I have that I can use? Etc…Life is hard and I’m sorry you’ve been feeling that way. We all go through it! I will be praying for you and for you to feel HIS purpose and strength. We need a better outreach program at church for people your age. Where are you supposed to meet guys and people your age? It has to be a lonely feeling. You always have a seat next to me at church to.
I’m sorry I really don’t know what to say other than we all have been there all have felt that way and all our struggling through our journey through this life. It will go so fast. Please let me know if I can do anything for you!! I love you!
June 11, 2009 at 4:57 pm
Amanda
I can’t really add anything here. Rachel said it all. I love you and I’m praying for you daily!!! Hang in there and know that He has a will for all of us.
June 11, 2009 at 11:24 pm
brittany
I have felt alone at one point. I felt like the sins of my past left me broken and by myself. You have done all you can, you gave it to the Lord. And when you gave it to Him…I know He was looking down on you and asking you “What Sin?” Try and remember that once we ask forgiveness then it is as far as the East is from the West. It is Satan who reminds us of them everyday. It is Satan who say to you that you are alone and its because of your sins. But we arent. And you arent Teri. We have to remember that it is all in His timing. His timing is perfect. Your day is coming. You just have to remember to ask Him to open your eyes and your heart. I’ll be praying for you. I HAVE been praying for you. You are wonderful Teri…wonderful wonderful wonderful.